It’s that time of year when we start looking ahead to the festive season. Some people are already Christmas shopping, whilst others prefer the last-minute rush.

However, when it comes to making plans for child arrangements over the festive season, there is no time like the present. 

Every parent wants to give their children a magical Christmas, and it is natural to feel under extra pressure as a separated parent. 

For those who may be approaching their first Christmas as a separated family, what should be a joyful time can feel bittersweet or even painful. Even for those who have been separated for some time, Christmas can be a flash point in terms of conflict.

Discussions may revolve around familiar topics: Where will the children sleep on Christmas eve? Will there be a handover on Christmas Day? What about spending time with grandparents? 

Whilst it can be tempting to put off having difficult conversations with your ex-partner, planning ahead is often the key. The sooner you start a dialogue, the more time you will have to work out a plan for what Christmas will look like this year. 

Once you have a plan, make sure that your children know what will happen, where they will be and who they will spend time with. 

As you move forward, let this Christmas be a time to start new traditions and make memories you can treasure.